Friday, March 25, 2011

SELF TALK

Why we are what we are :damn too corrupt,is quite ease to be understood - we want Bhagat Singh,Rajguru and Sukhdev kind born to others but for our own family Sharukh , Mukesh or Madhuri as children.
ON 6 % RISE IN D. A. : Sincere desire to feel good but then ,what of rest of the countrymen beyond Govt. employees/pensioners - struggling day in and day out just to meet the two ends : month after month.Is the economist P.M. abandoning all other section of the society for the sake of keeping failed machinery oiled.Will it further widen the divide and prove counter productive .

Quite true , the two most affectionate people in a man's life - rather three ,still better : lets make it four and u can go on increasing the numbers.However it comes down to just two - mother and wife ,when people affecting and getting affected is considered.So ,it's rope tight walking - slightest trip n down u go ;but for that one ...needs balancing.the man is put into a difficult,complex and a fast changing situation.To handle it you need not to have masters at jugglery sort of qualification from a premier institute.What is required is little common sense which is so uncommon.Managing relationships is as such never been that complicated as it has been made out to be :some time your wife will act like a child and the other time it will be your mother, other time they both in turn or simultaneously behave like a parent.You have to always act like an adult and further ensure that the two warring parties due their own clash of interests are brought in line of an adult to adult interaction - which is symbiotic and can out live every inimical tendencies.Being on toes to scratch each others back as and when required and to remain open to others point of view so as appreciate it without tags.

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